Year Reflection Meeting Next Wednesday 💜

Good evening,

We want to give a huge thank you to the CWC for hosting the assertive communication & respecting boundaries workshop last meeting.

WiB will have one more meeting this semester on Wednesday, May 5 at 7pm EST. We will be reflecting on the past year, doing fun Spring trivia with prizes, and announcing the 2021-2022 E-Board! We encourage everyone to attend so please RSVP and join us for this fun wrap-up event with reflection.

RSVP: https://forms.gle/69xeUphy7f5mKWucA

Zoom link: https://umass-amherst.zoom.us/j/91261098331
Meeting ID: 912 6109 8331

Peer Mentor Program Feedback

Please take a moment to fill out the feedback survey by tomorrow 4/29. We hope all mentees and mentors had a wonderful year.
FTK Dance Marathon

We raised $2,263 for the FTK Dance Marathon last Saturday. Thank you for participating, fundraising, and donating.

Additional Opportunities


Becker Campus Ambassador
Rising junior and senior accounting majors can apply to be a Becker campus ambassador. More info here and application here.

Join Us for CWC Workshop Tomorrow!

Hello everyone,

Join us tomorrow, April 26 at 7pm EST for a workshop led by the UMass Center for Women & Community. They will present on assertive communication and respecting boundaries.

Zoom link: https://umass-amherst.zoom.us/j/95092897749
Meeting ID: 950 9289 7749
Passcode: CWC

Peer Mentor Program Feedback

Please take a moment to fill out the feedback survey for the peer mentorship program. We hope all mentees and mentors had a wonderful year.
FTK Dance Marathon

Thank you for your participation and donations to the WiB team for the UMass FTK Dance Marathon supporting the Baystate Children's Hospital. We appreciate the community service/fundraising committee's efforts throughout the year to organize and fundraise for our dance team.

School Year Recap: Remembering the Good Instead of the Bad

By: Rachael Doyle

Looking back, this school year is definitely not what I had hoped for. I was so excited to get on campus to meet new people, try new things, and make plenty of memories. Instead I’ve been stuck in my room staring at my laptop for the past year wondering when my life will actually start. But I know I’m not alone. Students all around the world are experiencing the same thing, as life in a remote world seems to take an immense toll on our physical and mental health. Now that we have reached the light at the end of the tunnel, it is important to reflect on what got us through these hard times. Whether it be something as simple as a favorite snack or the help of a supportive teacher, remembering the good that got us through this past year will hopefully allow us to move forward from these hardships and into next year with a positive mindset. 

Here are some things that I wouldn’t have been able to survive this school year without.

The Morning Coffee Run

The only thing that got me up in time for my early classes was the thought of my morning coffee. Each day I would wake up, get ready, and hop in the car on the hunt for cold brew. My usual spot was (and always will be) Dunkin’, but sometimes when in the mood I’d take the 20 minute trek to my local Starbucks. This time to myself each morning seemed simple, but trust me when I say it was so needed. While it seems silly, these drives would always put me in a good mood and allow me to have a productive day. 

My Professors!!

This school year has been hard on everyone, including teachers and professors. My mom is a high school teacher, and watching her have to navigate the pressures of our constantly changing education system in 2020 has given me a newfound perspective on what our professors at UMass must be going through. Despite this I have yet to face any issues this year, as each professor I have had has been flexible and understanding toward the needs of their students. They constantly check in on us to make sure we are doing okay, and sometimes I even get extensions on assignments without even asking for them. Their kindness and transparency has been a huge help to me this school year, and has made my first year at UMass so much easier. 

Trying Something New

Another way I would fill my time usefully was by finding new hobbies and activities to try. I wanted to be able to do something that I would enjoy while also getting away from my phone. This led me to start learning how to play the piano! I got a used one from my local music store, set it up in my room, and taught myself the basics. This new hobby gave me something to feel passionate about, and I constantly practiced in hopes of getting better. It helped me feel productive while also getting a break from my schoolwork, and overtime I slowly started getting better. While I am still not great at playing the piano, I look forward to practicing almost every day and even hope to take formal lessons one day. 

Extracurriculars 

One of the things that I looked forward to the most this semester was my extracurriculars. Many students probably thought that clubs held virtually “wouldn’t be the same”, but I actually think that this year has allowed many clubs to be more creative and personable despite their setting. As a freshman that didn’t get to live on campus, I was scared that I would fall behind socially, and that I would miss out on what was happening at UMass. However, the clubs that I was involved in this year like WiB and the Isenberg Marketing Committee helped me connect to other students that shared my interests. I was able to listen to guest speakers that inspired me, participate in fundraisers for great causes, and even get advice on campus life that I can use for next year. Staying involved in as many extracurriculars as possible helped me do so many things that I wouldn’t have otherwise, and it is one of the best decisions I made for myself this year.

I hope my yearly reflection inspired you to think about some of your favorite things from this past school year. It can be something as simple as your favorite snack, or an event that inspired you to do something great. Be sure to write these things down, and think about how they will inspire you to enter next semester as a better version of yourself. 



Body Talk.

By: Jenna DiDonato

As Summer is coming up and we are already shopping for that perfect swimsuit…there seems to be the underlying fear of how will my body look?! As women, we are told our bodies aren’t the “right size” or they don’t have the “right look”. And this doesn’t magically end once we are older, it’s a constant struggle. 

As someone who is and has always been on the thinner side, I have experienced body shaming which has then turned into self hatred. I don’t eat enough, I have no muscle, I look like a child, parts of my body aren’t big or small enough, I should eat more meat...I could go on and on about all the lies I’ve been told and have believed. I know I am not the only one who has gone through this. It’s hard not to believe when you see girls and women on TV who are “desirable” and “dateable”, and no, not represented as my body type.

And looking at the past couple years, it’s only recently that we have plus size models on the forefront. And woman with all breast sizes. Or people with different skin types and colors. With freckles. With beauty marks. With something “different” than the ordinary! This is what we have needed all throughout life, as women, as little kids. What everyone needs is representation of ALL bodies that ALL look different. We need young & old, transgender & non gender conforming, we need gay & straight, we need black & white, we need plus size, we need thin size, we need ANY size.

What I have to focus on, is loving my own body and re-learning that I am perfect just the way I am. Yes, let’s build each other up, but let’s not forget to build ourselves up too. I am a strong, beautiful and healthy woman, and I will wear whatever swimsuit or dress or shirt that feels good on and for ME. 

And Never forget, there’s no winning in comparison, so love your body up!

CWC Workshop Next Meeting

Happy Wednesday,

Our next meeting on Monday, April 26 at 7pm EST will be a workshop led by the UMass Center for Women & Community. They will present on assertive communication and respecting boundaries. We will have one more WiB meeting the following week in May as a year reflection.

Check our next email for the 4/26 Zoom link.

Reminders

  • Peer mentorship Escape Room Night tonight at 7pm

  • Marketing committee meeting tomorrow at 6:30pm

FTK Dance Marathon

The Dance Marathon is this Saturday 4/24! Text UMassFTK to 51555 to join our team and click here to learn more/donate!

Additional Opportunities


Holdette Event
"How to Land Your First Job After College" on 4/26 at 8pm. RSVP here.

Mediahub Mentorship Opportunity
New deadline to apply by 4/23.